Cheating husband better than a cheating wife (true/false)
Cheating
in a relationship is neither a male nor is it a female thing, but in most cases
the male partners are always found guilty of infidelity. Researchers and
scholars keep trying constantly to determine which gender is guiltier than the
other, or which is slightly acceptable to an extent. Literally speaking, the
modern world day has been tag “a man’s world” where the men are allowed to do whatever
they want and get away easily with it, which is definitely not the case if it
were a woman, the men has already been considered a superior being compared to
the women. In relationships it is expected of the woman to be submissive and
always subject to the needs of the men. In the world at large especially Africa
to be precise, polygamy is accepted if it is a man getting married to several
women not the other way around. Even in the bible we read about great men like;
King David, King Solomon and even the father of all nations Abraham had a fling
with his maid, but there was never any record of a woman with several husbands
(which I stand to be corrected). In an ideal world if a man cheats on his partner
the society and community will be able to over-looking his mistakes, whereas I
can’t say the same for a woman. When a woman cheats she is seen as cheap and
not of good moral values, because it is believed that a woman is meant to be
reserved and keep her dignity at all cost.
Generally
a female child is always raised differently from a male child, in the sense
that they are taught to dignify themselves, and cheating on your partner tends
to deplete the dignity of a woman. There have been several arguments about
which gender cheats the most or which is easier to over-looking, hence the
slogan “any key that is capable of opening all locks is a master key, while any
lock that can be opened by all keys is a useless lock,” most men use this
slogan to justify their infidelity to their partners, and make their mistakes
look excusable and innocent. Well I hate to break it you, but that slogan
doesn’t apply in this case, because cheating is cheating no matter the gender
found guilty of it, We should all say things as they are. Whether if it is a man or woman that cheats,
it is wrong and should not be encouraged, because the fact still remains that
cheating is not a gender thing and should not be treated as such.

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