Cheating husband better than a cheating wife (true/false)



                Cheating in a relationship is neither a male nor is it a female thing, but in most cases the male partners are always found guilty of infidelity. Researchers and scholars keep trying constantly to determine which gender is guiltier than the other, or which is slightly acceptable to an extent. Literally speaking, the modern world day has been tag “a man’s world” where the men are allowed to do whatever they want and get away easily with it, which is definitely not the case if it were a woman, the men has already been considered a superior being compared to the women. In relationships it is expected of the woman to be submissive and always subject to the needs of the men. In the world at large especially Africa to be precise, polygamy is accepted if it is a man getting married to several women not the other way around. Even in the bible we read about great men like; King David, King Solomon and even the father of all nations Abraham had a fling with his maid, but there was never any record of a woman with several husbands (which I stand to be corrected). In an ideal world if a man cheats on his partner the society and community will be able to over-looking his mistakes, whereas I can’t say the same for a woman. When a woman cheats she is seen as cheap and not of good moral values, because it is believed that a woman is meant to be reserved and keep her dignity at all cost.
                Generally a female child is always raised differently from a male child, in the sense that they are taught to dignify themselves, and cheating on your partner tends to deplete the dignity of a woman. There have been several arguments about which gender cheats the most or which is easier to over-looking, hence the slogan “any key that is capable of opening all locks is a master key, while any lock that can be opened by all keys is a useless lock,” most men use this slogan to justify their infidelity to their partners, and make their mistakes look excusable and innocent. Well I hate to break it you, but that slogan doesn’t apply in this case, because cheating is cheating no matter the gender found guilty of it, We should all say things as they are.  Whether if it is a man or woman that cheats, it is wrong and should not be encouraged, because the fact still remains that cheating is not a gender thing and should not be treated as such.

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